As I have hit mid-life, I am more discerning about who I allow
in and who I don’t.
I think it is one of the most important lessons as we age. That friendships are
not about quantity. They are about quality.
It is not about the number of friends we have but the things
we seek to feel safe with those we choose.
There are virtues I want to give to those I love and there
are virtues I need back.